Safety Guide for Men

This guide was written to help you have a responsible, respectful experience on your path to marriage.

Important reminder: Zojestan does not verify any users. Each user's conduct is their personal responsibility. Please read this guide carefully.

Respect: The Foundation of Every Relationship

  • Treat every woman with the utmost politeness and respect — as you would treat your own family.
  • Do not send inappropriate, hurtful, or undignified messages.
  • If a woman doesn't respond or ends the conversation, respect her decision.

Honesty in Your Profile

  • Provide truthful and honest information in your profile — from your name to your photos.
  • Avoid exaggerated or misleading claims about your financial status, job, or age.
  • Upload genuine, recent photos of yourself — do not use other people's or old images.

Observing Respectful and Legal Boundaries

  • Keep conversations within proper etiquette — strictly avoid requesting inappropriate images.
  • If you wish to meet in person, plan it with a mahram present or in a public setting.
  • Keep any personal information a woman shares with you confidential.

First Meeting — Responsibly and Safely

  • Suggest the first meeting in a public place with the woman's mahram present.
  • Never pressure a woman into meeting.
  • Have your own transportation and do not put the woman in an uncomfortable situation.

Reporting and Complying with Platform Rules

  • Report any misuse of the system immediately.
  • Advertising, spam, or financial requests are prohibited and will result in account suspension.
  • Respecting platform rules creates a better experience for everyone.

If You Encounter a Problem

  • In case of any threat or suspicious behavior, seek help from Zojestan's support section.
  • Keep screenshots of suspicious conversations.
  • If you need legal help, contact the relevant authorities.

Your responsible behavior creates a safer environment for everyone. The Zojestan team thanks you.

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